Thursday, July 07, 2005

stuff

Heck,its been an amazing 48 hours since i've connected to the net. Infact too many things transpired within the small space of time. Moreover Baba having taken over the comp for the past few days meant i was out of the scene.

But i won't blog about all that happened to me coz i feel very tired and sleepy and also coz it seems pretty meaningless after all the stuff thats happened back in London. Just shows that the actual bomb is still ticking away. And i fear and always perpetually fear that one day that final bomb will blast. It could happen the day someone i know travels in the metro. Could happen any goddamn time!

I'd rather share something that happened to a very close friend of mine. Some thing that needs sorting out. Apparently, a few days back, he got in touch with a female from his city. A total random stranger, who began dropping in messages on his messenger after locating him through an internet-networking site (Hi5). She initially messaged him a lot, until he started replying. They got talking. She mailed him, dropped in her phone no. and asked him to get in touch and finally today they went out. He was pretty elated when i talked to him. But, as is typical with him, he played it down heavily. Sticking to his whole principle of not complicating matters and keeping things easy. As much as i would have him believe that this particular female in question most definitely has more than a just-friends-kind-of passing interest in him, he brushed off my suggestions totally. All i could tell him was to look into the obvious. Because till before today, the female has never met my friend. She had only seen pictures of him. And had till today only known of him through whatever he claimed his interests were, on this site (all of which are authentic). Asking him about the girl i learnt that she's not a freak child of nature and is a pretty normal, regular and nice girl (this is the way he put it). Knowing my friend that is a big achievement. For, a girl rarely generates that kind of a response from this absolute bone-headed freak. They apparently had great time together. "Bhaated for 2 and a half hours straight!". She is single (something she mentioned in a very well-guised manner). And till now she's the one who's done everything to get the whole thing going. I told him that if he felt that they gelled well together, and he felt comfortable, theres no reason not to take the hints. Theres no need to rush and stuff, but he should surely sort out the crux of the whole thing atleast at one point of time or the other, and not let it just be, like he's done in a million other cases to his own regret later on.

But being the bone-headed freak he managed justify his stand and trashed the whole idea that this female maybe interested in him in more-than-just-a-friendish way. So with his go ahead i decided to look for answers from blogsphere. I don't know if i will convince him. Knowing him it will be a difficult task to do so. But i hope people can tell me what they feel.
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Other than that i must say its a pretty amazing night sky tonight, and been an extremely sunny day for a change too.

27 comments:

Lancelot said...

been an extremely sunny day here too... could be nething really-too damn difficult trying to read women!!! Let him just let things take their own course...

Acroyali said...

@lancelotstake: thanx... :), agree with u abt reading women!

Dipanjan Das said...

maa kasam! this one is manna for a kgp guy!

Acroyali said...

yes indeed, i envy my friends luck...:D

Rimi said...

bang your pal's head against the wall! what is WRONG with him???!!! tell him girls ususally don't act this way unless they're seriously interested ;-)
trust me, i'm a girl! (in case you didn't notice...)
oh, and thanks for dropping by, but if you wan to see more posts, make sure there are more than one comments on the last two!
(being a swollen-headed idiot, aren't i??? love myself!!!)

Dreamcatcher said...

this girl must be pretty seriously interested in your friend..no girl that i know of otherwise goes to such great efforts. He should be flattered ..very very flattered because girls dont usually track someone down with such singlemindedness and knowing the abysmal girl boy ratio at iit - kgp well he should consider himself lucky.

Srikar said...

First time here. Nice blog. You seem to be someone who's interested in photography. Check out my photoblog - snapshots2097.blogspot.com

Will surely be back here.

Acroyali said...

@rimi : thanx for ur thots, i'll surely have his head checked... i did drop into ur blog once b4 and agree with u abt Parineeta, i'm linking on my blog...

@dreamcatcher: thnx fer dropping by and for ur comments as well.

@sirkar: well, i'm not heavily into photography but do find it interesting. don't have much knowhow. u too have a great blog, thanx for dropping by

kpowerinfinity said...

lol! tell ur friend to keep away from the other half of the human species... that gurl is behaving fishy!!! run for life :P

waise can i have ur real name? mail me at kpowerinfinity@gmail.com

Gee said...

kpowerinfinity
its ppl like u who make our lives so miserable- please dont trouble urself with such thoughts. i may be sounding rude but i do have very goood reasons
acroyali
tor frend ke bol- to act sensibly and i mean sensibly, girls wont tell u directly so much, take the hints please
and aakje tor bloger bapare telegraphe podlam- cool yaar!

Teleute said...

tor blog niye telegraphe-e lekha hoyechhe?? kobe?? kon page??

Teleute said...

aatchollish ghonta online thakte parchhis kintu amar prosner ekta speedy reply dite parchhis na? e ki dhoroner osobhyotami?

Teleute said...

ohh... porlam. bhalo bhalo. tui to ebar almost famous!
:D

Acroyali said...

amar blog telegraph-e featured kobe holo?? eki!! aami dekhini keno??

Teleute said...

aajker Weekend - 1st page!

Lancelot said...

hey u ppl...here i hav no newspaper...wats it say??

Acroyali said...

@kpowerinfinity: thnx for dropping by, u do sound like bitten and shy! will mail ya...

@herenow: arrey wat rotten luck! aajkei amader telegraph dey ni! havent yet seen whatever u guys r talking of. aar thnx for reiterating ur views!

@teleute: sorry boss ekhuni online holam...

Teleute said...

aar bolis na - chaap to noy, suffocation puropuri. n hav absolutely no plans, n nowher to go. i'm gonna get very close to dead today.

Teleute said...

ki holo byaparta? ami ekkhuni ekta comment korlam seta kothay ube gelo?

Teleute said...

ohh... ebar abar comment-ta ferot ese gechhe. weird.

jai hok, tor telegraph nei to try checkin today's e-edition of it.

Acroyali said...

@teleute: na na, finally porlam. ekdom khush, haashi aar dhore naa... for some vague reason weekend chaara rest of the paper is online...

Gee said...

hehe
nice conversation btween teleute and acroyali
aar ei je aami ekta eto important news dilam.. tar bodole na ektu thanks na kichhu! amar bloge ki ektuo comment korte nei? emnitei template niye problem, cant link new ppl! sigh!

Teleute said...

deo na re - majhratre uttor-er haoa works wonders!
:D

jaded said...

hey, read abt u in the newspaper.totally agree, u r a class act.am new in here and u r grand!!!
Btw ur friend is rather "boneheaded" as u say.somethins definately wrong with the gurl ar noi to xtremely lonely;-)
tell him to giv it a shot and find out what the girl's like.i think she's not very "normal".
take care guru

Acroyali said...

@jaded: thank u very much. no re this girl is an absolutely fine person, claims my friend defiantly. and do keep dropping by...:D

Anonymous said...

i agree with heernnow tor bondhu r ki matha ta geche, tell him to just forget abt his wierd ideas n start goin out with the girl...amio meye n can safely say kono meye ato ta trouble nebe na until n unless she is really interested n the guy is seriously shy..ur friend is in iitkgp? kon dep? n yr?

Acroyali said...

@anon: hmmm...thnx. amar bondhur aar kono upay nei bollei mone hocche, with almost evry1 saying the same thing. can't disclose much here. y don't u msg me on yahoo- gotta_keep_smilin